Saturday, October 18, 2014

Day 13_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge


Yesterday I watched my Mom's life force leave her body.  I am grateful and honored to have had the privilege of holding her hand through her passage from this world into the next.  It made me think of meditation and deep breathing.  She took the deepest, most profound breathes I've ever witnessed.  Each time, the inhalations became shorter, and the exhalation longer. Then finally, I watched her spirit leave her body, it became clear to me that the breath IS the life force. Its what propels you, drives you, makes you alive.  You can not exist without it.

Your body is housing for your soul.  And when it becomes decayed and incapable of holding that energy, that spirit fights to break free.  It drives itself out into space, out from the limited walls of a body into the openness of space.  It disseminates its particles everywhere, a room, the sky, the universe.  Then all at once, it is one with everything, everyone, all of time and space.

I watched with a mixture of emotions; relief, gratitude, love, sadness, peace, and neutrality- all at once. There was no fear- we both knew what was happening; her body was making its final transition. I was her escort until the source from whence she came took her the rest of the way.

Later, after my Mom's passing, my daughter Jessica and I witnessed a miracle.  We were outside and we saw grey clouds lining the sky- except for one spot above us.  This patch of blue sky had white clouds, however, there was something unique sitting in the middle.  There were two perfectly straight lines of clouds shaped to form a cross.  How do you explain that?  Mom is still all around us and always will be.

So I encourage all of you to breath!  Do your meditation and keep your bodies healthy so you can use your life force to achieve your goals, love and appreciate your babies, your spouses, your friends and your community. Be alive!  Forget the worries, they only makes you sick.  Think positive thoughts, fill your heart with joy and use your mind to its fullest potential-then see how high you can soar. Know that the universe has a plan for you because it can not exist without you.  You are it and it is you!!!!        

It's Deepak Chopra and Oprah meditation time again- you may want to click and register.  I've given you plenty of choices to make for your meditation exercises; my imagination exercises, I AM AVATAR, and now Deepak.  I hope you chose something that fits your needs.

Peace,
Namaste




Friday, October 17, 2014

Day 12_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

I hope you guys downloaded I AM AVATAR.  Today you can do my Shapely Outer Thighs exercise and add it to the mix.  It's just one more tool for your kit.  My goal is the arm you with ammunition that will fight off the negative emotions that lead you back to old behaviors.  As long as you continue to do positive, health oriented activities for you body, mind and spirit-you will optimize your health and wellbeing.  

You are almost at the halfway mark towards achieving your goal and now your new habits are beginning to dominate the old ones.  There is a process to creating change in your behavior.  Behavioral scientists call it the Stages of Change Model and it looks like this.

1.       Precontemplation Stage- This stage resembles denial.  The obese person may decide they are past the point of help, they’ve simply given up.  Smokers may decide that other people may die from emphysema, but not them.  The thought of having to exercise regularly in order to prevent chronic back pain does not entered a patient’s mind even though they constantly miss work or family events because of severe pain.  This stage is referred to as “pre” contemplation because the patient has not even considered changing their behavior.   

2.   Contemplation Stage- At this stage, the patient is considering the pros and cons of changing their behavior with much indifference.  They measure up the barriers standing in the way of change such as time, money, fear, etc; against the perceived benefits- improved health, pain relief, and a longer lifespan.

3.    Preparation Stage- Here the patient begins to experiment with the idea of change.  They might enroll in an exercise program or begin eating low fat foods, maybe even reduce their alcohol intake or cut back on smoking.  They make small changes and are “testing” the waters of change

4.    Action Stage- This is the golden stage.  This is where the “action” plan comes into play.  (This is where I like to advise people to declare a goal.  Speak it, tell someone else you will do this and then create a strategy to keep you on track.)  This stage creates new activities where the patient engages in developing new behaviors.

5.   Maintenance and Relapse Prevention- This stage involves incorporating the new “activity” over the “long haul”.  Here, group camaraderie and accountability partners play a huge supportive role.  The fact remains that relapse is part of the process.  Discouragement over “slips” may cause a recycling of the process several times before the behavior changes for good. 

Cementing a new way of life is is a process, it takes time.  The key is to keep putting one foot in front of the other and to keep showing up.  One day you will wake up and realize your dream has really come true!
Namaste 

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Day 11_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

I just finished a 30 minute guided meditation.  Click it and download the program.  I want to share this experience with you because I believe you will connect with the deepest levels of your knowing by listening to it.  This program I AM AVATAR is pretty amazing and it will solidify your intention for achieving your goal. This ancillary program will help you "bridging the gap between you and your Personal Best.

I know time constraints make our journey difficult.  Remember though, you are the one who creates those limitations of time.  The universe does not base its existence on a clock.  These ticking minutes are self imposed parameters you create to distinguish past, present and future. The truth is, there is only now.  What you did yesterday is in your mind, what you do now, this instant, creates energy, and how you manage that energy determines your future.  The past is merely a reflection of who you once were.  That aspect of yourself does not exist at this moment.  So bringing old habits that no longer serve you into the next minute of your life simply stalls your growth.  It's like burning rubber-you are spinning in exactly the same place without moving forward.

Today, figure out how to include one more "exercise" in your journey towards developing your body, mind and spirit.  I believe you are here to discover the greatness which lies within you.  If you can incorporate more ways to reach a deeper relationship with IT, such as this 30 day challenge for your body, the blogs and camaraderie for your mind, and meditation, imagination and visualization for your soul, you will finally "walk the talk"; you will arrive.

 Namaste

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Day 10_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

There’s always such hope for great change at the beginning of a Challenge.    In these group challenges, you can choose to “transform” yourself and your life for the better.  You can rid yourself of those nasty habits that deter you from optimizing your health and wellbeing.  If you are consistent, you will have the body you have always dreamed of and the benefits of living a pure clean life - in body, mind and soul. 

However, if you have not made a solid commitment to your health, chances are you will not get the desired results.  Ask yourself, “Have I really been consistent with my goal?  Am I diligent about a daily discipline towards achieving a higher level of awareness about my body, mind and spirit?” If the answer is no, TODAY is the day to reboot your efforts.  It’ not too late, it’s never too late to begin your journey of self improvement.  
  
Most people have really busy lives; a 40 hour work week (or more) and family responsibilities.  Time for yourself seems impossible to fit in however, you DO have the time.  There are 168 hours in a week.  You have 15 minutes a day to sit and do your imagination exercise and you have 3-4 hours a week for physical exercise.  Since you have to eat to survive, you have the ability to make healthy meal choices and if you are diligent about portion control – you actually SAVE time because it takes less time to eat smaller meals! 

So enough with the excuses, it’s time to get honest with yourself.  I am going to nag you for another 20 days throughout this process and remind you that you deserve to be the best you can be.  Sabotaging your success may have been a habit in the past however, you are now moving in a new direction with your life.  If you stay true to this little challenge, this simple little goal, you will gain the power to move the world- if you so desire.

You have stored within you the same ingredients from which the universe, the stars and planets were made; that immense power which can set off atomic blasts.  That is powerful; you simply forget to stop and contemplate the enormity of that potential.  However, if you look deep inside yourself, if you connect with the universal intelligence that orchestrates you, me and the heavens, you gain insight into that potential.  You begin to understand that the only barriers to your success are the ones you place on yourself.  The energy you are made from, by and for- longs to thrive and expand its limitless potential.  You simply have to let it have its way and stop blocking its natural state of existence.  

So, just a quick reminder- if you have not been 100% true to your goal, reset it now.  Today… this instant, because it matters very much what you chose to do right now.  It can determine the course of your life.  It can make the difference between you living a life of expansion and growth or a life of fear and doubt.  It is your choice.

If you have gone off track, re-submit yourself to your Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge and transform your life starting TODAY!  And like the Ticos (Costa Rican nationals) like to say “There is more time than life.” You can still do this, there will always be more time- the only question is, will you be living a fully limitless life within it?


Namaste.

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Day 9_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

Discipline- The Power behind your Goals

So far, you have set a “realistic” goal.  You are retraining your mind to think positively.  You are working hard to organize your life and taking “action” towards establishing new and healthy habits.  Now you need to “discipline” yourself to stay the course.

Believe me; you are past the hardest part.  When you first start out with any new program; whether it’s fitness, nutritional, or spiritual, your transformation is contingent on establishing new habits.  However, more importantly; you must be disciplined enough to break the old ones if you are to achieve success. 

Here are 3 Easy Steps to help you develop discipline in your life.  I want to teach you to enjoy doing the hard work of reaching your goals because the rewards will be so great, that the path towards the end, no matter how excruciating, will be overshadowed by the experience of a win.

Step 1 towards creating discipline is using your IMAGINATION.  Imagine yourself as a disciplined person.  Visualize yourself at the end of this 30 day challenge.  How does your body feel, what is your family saying about you?  How do your clothes fit?  What do you feel like when you look in the mirror?  How do you feel emotionally about staying the course and realizing you are on track to getting into the best shape of your life?   I imagine it feels pretty good.   

Old habits ruin our best intentions.  It’s easier to repeat patterned behaviors and harder to learn new ones.  When we are living our lives by rote we don't have to think.  Neuroscientists tell us that neurons, or nerve cells, in our brains make connections communicating through synapses.  Every time we re-activate that circuitry by repeating a specific behavior, plasticity sets in.  Your brain literally changes structurally to accommodate the behavior.  Therefore, change requires our minds to rewire our thought process.  So, when given a choice, we tend to choose the path of least resistance because that is how we are physiologically wired.   

Step 2 is to STOP whenever you are at the “crossroads”.  The crossroads is that juncture where you are confronted with the choice to continue the old behavior or stop and decide to change it.  There are moments in the day when you realize you are on automatic pilot.  Discipline yourself to become fully conscious of your activities and decisions.  Commit to your goal every moment of the day.  We have all had those moments when we realize we are coasting along and boom, some old habit wants to derail us from our goal.  At that moment, you must be disciplined enough to stop and ask yourself, “Would acting on my old behavior be healthy for me or would it be healthier if I choose to recommit to my wellness goal instead?  The answer is quite obvious.  A disciplined approach to life is one where you make a concerted effort to make the change.  Discipline yourself to keep your goal at the forefront of your mind.

Step 3.  Create a new habit for success by rewarding yourself.  Every time you achieve success with your new goal, give yourself a treat.  Download a new song onto your iPhone, or go buy a new mat (that beat up old thing stinks anyway), treat yourself to a healthy dinner, or go home and soak in a nice, hot, soothing bubble bath.  Whatever you decide; you are now beginning to create new neural-pathways that will continually lead you towards healthier choices and closer to achieving your ultimate goal. Out with the old, in with the new.  

Namaste
  



Monday, October 13, 2014

Day 8_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

Taking Action

I have been talking to you about developing positive expectations however they must be followed by action for change to occur.  Once you have experienced this positive change with the smallest of problems, it emboldens you to take on the bigger issues which may be blocking your success.  You will soon discover it no longer feels satisfying to wait for success, you will feel the urge to go out and do something about it

This action-oriented lifestyle will make you question your old ways; and questioning your basic assumptions about life can be uncomfortable and leave you feeling uncertain.  That is why I’m warning you; old habits will burrow in and will sabotage your attempts at success.  They will invade your “new program” like a virus.  They will fight for a strong hold.  You must be diligent about doing visualization, meditation and fitness exercises daily to eradicate the virus; your old habits and behaviors.  Expect to feel different.

Use your positive imagination exercise to see yourself accepting your new power and rejoicing in your new strength.  Once you get past the initial discomfort, you will find it is an empowering experience to solve your problems and face your challenges head on.  As you become used to your new outlook on life, you will find that a positive attitude will do much more than help you solve your problems.

Have you ever noticed highly successful people?  Things just seem to go right for them.  Everything falls into place and they seem to breeze through life, moving from one success to another without struggle.  Are they simply lucky? No!  They have mastered their energy and the art of positive thinking by taking action and creating a life built for success

Thoughts are like magnets, attracting circumstances and people that will help your dreams comes true.  Once you become a positive force, the people, situations and things that will bring you peace, love and abundance will be drawn to you!

It may sound like magic, but there is nothing mysterious about the power of a positive attitude.  Once you develop an optimistic outlook on life, you become a person who acts instead of reacts.  You don’t wait for things to happen you make them happen.  Your enthusiasm will urge you to strive for and achieve the things you dream of and simultaneously, your attitude will be contagious to others.  

Think of animals and their instincts.  Nobody teaches a bird how to build a nest.  Birds just know how to do what they need to do.  You have a much stronger instinct, an instinct for happiness and abundance.  If you wake up in the morning clear of worry and doubt, you allow space in your life for intuition to take control and lead you toward what is naturally right for you. You have within you a source of wisdom that comes from a universal intelligence.  It’s buried deep within your cells. Once you clear away the negatives, the positive instincts naturally take over and guide you towards happiness and success. 

Even though you are born with this wisdom, as you age, you become conditioned by your parents, peers, and other environmental influences which teach you to suppress these natural instincts.  In fact, the first word you probably learned was “no”.

You are also born with a survival instinct - to fight or flee - “survival of the fittest”.  Struggle causes stress and stress triggers that instinct within you.  You often fail when stress from work, relationships or health issues trigger emotions that make you want to fight or run away.  Sometimes stress causes you to behave aggressively causing havoc in your relationships, environment or finances.  Other times, you deny the situation by walking away and refusing to deal with problem at hand.   You behave in these ways for the sake of survival.  The strongest instinct within you is to LIVE.  

Trust yourself and your instincts for happiness.  Clear away the negatives and you will find that the positives are already there inside you, waiting to be uploaded into your life.  You won’t have to strain to find the things you enjoy, they are stored deep within you; you only need to call them forth.  Your cells carry the “owner’s manual” for this life.  They know exactly how to make your body, mind and spirit work in a homeostatic fashion for the greatest good and experience in this life.   

Namaste


Sunday, October 12, 2014

Day 7_Absolute Best 30 Day Challenge

An imagination, visualization and meditation exercise.

Situate yourself in a quiet and comfortable chair.  If you are at home, unplug your devices and arrange for uninterrupted time and space from your family, and if you are at work, inform your colleagues you are unavailable for the next 15 minutes. 

You need to sequester yourself and detach from the “rat race” to fully develop and charge your positive energy.  You want to be in full awareness of the process to properly concentrate on this exercise.  This is a very important step toward realizing your goal.  My suggestion is you begin each day with this exercise.  If you want the absolute best result, read through the exercise first, then sit down and DO the exercise. 

Begin by closing your eyes and concentrating on your body.  Keep your eyes focused towards the center of your brow, also referred to as your “mind’s eye”.  Visualize a machine scanning your entire body from the tips of your toes to the top of your head.  Begin to relax your muscles as the scan moves up your body.  Feel the relaxation moving from your toes, to your feet, ankles, legs and thighs.  Slowly continue upwards towards your hips, lower back, solar plexus, chest and heart.  Now feel your shoulders, neck, throat, and facial muscles relaxing.  Feel your sinuses opening and allowing for deeper breaths.  Sense how your heart rate slows down allowing the tension to slowly melt away from every part of your body.

Begin to concentrate on your breath by inhaling and mentally counting to eight.  Hold the breath for 3 seconds prior to exhaling - being careful not to force the hold.  Then release and exhale through your nose and mouth feeling the air escaping from the back of your throat - - slowly.  Mentally count to eight once again as you exhale. When you feel you have no more air left to breath out, try to sustain this breathless state for 3 seconds prior to inhaling. Repeat this process two more times.  I want you to become aware of your breathe.  After these 3 deep breathes, take two quick cleansing breaths.  This will automatically check and release your body from any residual tension. 

Continue the process of 3 deep breaths counting to 8 as you inhale and exhale, holding at the top and bottom of the breath, and 2 quick cleansing breaths to release residual tension.  Do these until you feel your body and mind relaxing.   Now, imagine something you would like to improve in your life.  Choose a small problem - - we'll tackle the big ones later when you become an expert at this breathing technique.  For now, I want you to feel successful at this visualization exercise.
 
This form of breathing is a vital key to affecting the absolute best results from your imagination exercise.  It will help you build a new and healthy habit for energizing and developing a positive attitude.  It will become part of your problem solving “tool kit” to be used for all aspects of your life- relationships, financial and health. 

Once you identify the problem you would like to tackle– you can begin the exercise.  It can be anything, such as “I want to resolve a conflict with my supervisor at work” or “I want to deal with my children more effectively.” It can even be as simple as “I want to get my errands done quickly and easily without derailing the rest of my day.”

Picture yourself in a situation where you are dealing with this particular situation.  Put yourself in the scene.  See the people you are dealing with, the landscape, colors, smells, sensations and textures; visualize as much detail as you can.  The next step is very important. 

As you picture yourself in the situation, imagine you are seeing everything through your own eyes.  Then, once everything is absolutely clear in your mind’s eye, switch your point of view.  Now, see yourself as if you were a spectator watching the scene. 

See if you can sense yourself watching the scene from both points of view.  This is what Deepak Chopra talks about when he says to see things as both the “observer and the observed”.  Imagine you are simultaneously watching everything from both points of view.  When you to see the problem in front of you, how do you feel?  What emotions are coming up for you?  Is it fear, anger, embarrassment, shame, joy, envy, etc? 

How does your body feel?  Are you tensing up, do you feel blockage from the flow of your breathe?  If so, where is the block?  Is it in your lower back, your chest, neck or head?  Where is it?  Identify where your energy does not flow freely and then, consciously relax those muscles allowing the chi- (the body’s life force) to pass through and circulate throughout your body.  If you can feel the flow of your energy changing and your muscles relaxing, you know you are releasing blockage that may be preventing you from fully realizing your positive energy.  This blockage could be the result of an OLD trauma which caused pain in your body.  The emotional charge from that event could still be stored deep within your cellular memory.  It is time to release it now.  You do NOT have to carry it around any longer.  Breath in and out, slowly, and simply let it go.    

Now picture the scene where you are solving the problem at hand.  Use your power of visualization and watch yourself handling things like a pro.  You are being effective; dealing with the difficult situation in an easy and relaxed manner.  You feel strong and capable of getting the job done.  The words you chose are honest, direct and sincere.  They come from the heart, (in an energetic sense, your heart is your love center,) up to your throat and out your mouth.  Act out the entire situation, playing all the roles yourself, and resolve the problem. 

When you have completed the exercise, slowly open you’re your eyes and take a few more cleansing breaths.  Congratulate yourself on handling the problem well.  Know in your heart and mind that this is a fait accompli- you have done it, it is done and so it is

When you slowly open your eyes, stay seated for a moment before getting up and moving back into your day.  I want you to savor the feeling of being a strong, capable person who has just turned an aggravating situation into a success.  It is very important that you feel as if you have already achieved your desired result.  

Your subconscious mind will accept whatever you imagine as the truth.  When you imagine you have accomplished something, at a cellular level, you believe it has happened.  You body, physiologically, reacts the same way whether you are dreaming or awake.

Think of a dream you have had in the past.  Haven't you felt pleasure, pain, joy, sorrow, and every other emotion just as vividly as in real life?  Of course you have.  Your body stores all the emotions you experience while you are in a dream state or awake.  Then, it brings them forth whenever you identify with people, places and situations that trigger them.  Your intelligence, at a cellular level, is always poised to deliver the appropriate emotional response for any given situation. 

However, sometimes you become confused about which emotion belongs to which experience.  When a current situation triggers emotions from past experiences, you react according to your history, your past.  This built in cellular intelligence is actually a “survival mechanism”. 

Remember, your cells cannot distinguish between real and imagined truth, it is all the same physiologically.  Therefore, sometimes you behave without discerning and your “knee jerk” response to any given situation may or may not be appropriate.

I want you to habitually visualize, recognize and imagine yourself as the kind of person who is capable and deserving of great things.  The more you practice this visualization exercise, the more you will develop positive energy in your body.  Positive energy begets positive results.  Always finish your imagination exercise with a feeling of appreciation that you have the power to succeed in any situation with honor, truth and grace.

Namaste